So I'm moving into this new place in Toronto next week and my roommate and I are trying to get all the basic kitchen stuff and cleaning supplies sorted out. We've got a budget of like 500 bucks for the initial haul and we're looking at stuff on Amazon.ca because of the prime shipping. The problem is I've got like 20 things in my cart right now- a toaster, some cheap cutlery, a mop, some bulk dish soap- and I need her to look at them before I hit buy but there's literally no obvious share cart button on the Canadian site. It's driving me a bit crazy because it seems like such a basic feature that should exist by now.
I'm trying to figure out the best way to handle this because I don't want to just buy it all and then chase her for etransfers if she hates the stuff I picked out or thinks the prices are too high. I'm looking at a couple of ways to do this but I'm not sure what's actually easiest for us given we need to order everything by Sunday to get it on time.
We're on a super tight timeline since we move in on Tuesday and I really want this stuff to arrive by then. Is there some hidden feature I'm missing on the Canadian site or should I just risk the extension thing? I just want her to be able to see the exact items and maybe swap out the toaster if she finds a better deal...
Honestly, trying to coordinate a move in Toronto is stressful enough without Amazon making it harder to split a bill. If you are ordering 20+ items, you might want to consider the browser extension even if it feels a bit weird. I would suggest staying away from the login sharing for sure because that is a massive security headache, especially with your saved cards. In my experience, Share-a-Cart works surprisingly well with Amazon.ca and helps avoid those awkward etransfer mistakes later. You just have to be careful and follow a few steps to ensure everything goes smoothly:
Been thinking about your situation for a bit. I've tried basically every workaround for this over the years, and honestly, Amazon.ca is notoriously behind the US site when it comes to collaborative features. It's frustrating because the backend is obviously there, they just don't flip the switch for us Canadians for some reason. Before I suggest a specific technical route though, I gotta ask—what kind of hardware and browsers are you guys actually using? Are you both on Chrome or Firefox on a laptop, or is she trying to do all this on the mobile app? Most of the script-based solutions or even the lighter extensions are pretty finicky about cross-platform stuff. If she's on an iPhone and you're on a PC, half the 'easy' fixes just break immediately. Also, just to clarify, do you need her to actually be able to swap out items in real-time, or do you just need her to see a finalized list before you pull the trigger? If you just need a quick 'yes/no' on the toaster, there's a way to export the cart manifest to a cleaner format without her needing to login at all. What's the tech setup look like on her end? Just trying to make sure I don't give you a solution that's gonna glitch out and waste more of your time before Sunday.
Regarding what #1 said about "Honestly, trying to coordinate a move in Toronto..." it really is a nightmare. The whole wishlist thing was a total letdown when I moved last year. Unfortunately, these workarounds are never as good as expected... even though it seemed like the safe route, half the stuff I added went out of stock or the price jumped by 10 bucks by the time my roommate actually checked it. Its super frustrating because you end up spending way more than that 500 budget if you arent careful. One thing to watch out for is that Amazon lists dont always update the "prime" status correctly in real-time for the other person... she might end up adding stuff that isnt even eligible for Tuesday delivery. Ngl, I almost lost it when our "next day" mop took a week because she accidentally picked a third-party seller. Just be careful with that method. I've been using Cart to Link to share Amazon carts with family, makes gift planning way easier.